Speaking Life Into Others (Part 3)
Key Verse
“For when we place our faith in Christ Jesus, there is no benefit in being circumcised or being uncircumcised. What is important is faith expressing itself in love.”
—Galatians 5:6 (NLT)
The Idea
Over the past two weeks, we’ve focused on choosing kindness instead of harshness and on taming our tongues. This week, we’ll explore another crucial aspect of communication: speaking life into those around us. None of us can manage our words perfectly—we need the Holy Spirit’s help daily. Yet when we surrender our speech to Him, our words gain the power to encourage, heal, and uplift.
Take the disciple Simon’s example: Jesus gave him the name “Cephas” or “Peter,” meaning “rock.” Peter wasn’t exactly rock-solid when he first began following Jesus. He was impulsive, occasionally fearful, and even denied Jesus at one point. Yet Christ spoke into Peter’s potential—He affirmed who Peter would become rather than simply labeling him by his mistakes.
Why It Matters for You
Think of the people in your life—family members, friends, coworkers, or even acquaintances at church. How do you speak to them? Our words can do more than just prevent harm; they can actively build up the people around us. In a world full of criticism and cynicism, a single sentence of genuine affirmation can stand out like a beacon of hope.
Maybe you have a friend who is going through a hard time and feels overlooked. A kind word about their resilience or a note acknowledging their strengths might be exactly what they need to keep going. Or perhaps you have a colleague struggling to find their niche; pointing out their talents could boost their confidence and help them see new possibilities.
When guided by love, our words can shape the future for those who hear them. That’s why “faith expressing itself in love” (Galatians 5:6) is so vital. People don’t just need us to avoid harshness—they need the life-giving words that reflect God’s grace.
“Those who control their tongue will have a long life; opening your mouth can ruin everything.”
—Proverbs 13:3 (NLT)
Practical Ways to Speak Life
- Acknowledge Growth: If you see someone making progress—spiritually, emotionally, or in a skill—let them know you notice.
- Offer Specific Encouragement: Instead of a vague “great job,” point out what was impressive or meaningful. This makes the compliment more genuine.
- Balance Truth and Grace: Sometimes, the loving thing is gently correcting someone or bringing up a concern. Even then, speak with kindness and a desire to help them grow.
Challenge & Call to Action
Recall a time when someone’s words profoundly affected you—whether positively or negatively. How did it change your life or your outlook? This week, seek out at least one person and intentionally speak life into them. This might look like recognizing their unique gifts, offering heartfelt thanks, or highlighting their potential.
After you’ve done so, reflect on the impact. Did they stand a little taller, smile more confidently, or express gratitude for being truly seen? You never know how your words might become a catalyst for transformation in someone’s life.